James Philip Douglas, partner to Mandy and father to Holly, Katy and Rob, was born on February 12, 1957, in Oxford, and died suddenly at home in Appleford on April 18 aged 52.

Known as James, Jim, Douggie, Doug or Scunter, he grew up in Harwell and attended the local school.

Fascinated with his father Ray’s war experiences, Mr Douglas created elaborate war games with his soldiers and later consumed many books on 20th century wars, even taking a trip to Ypres with Mandy.

Completing his education at King Alfred’s School in Wantage, he won an apprenticeship at Harwell in 1973 and spent four years learning his trade as a toolmaker and machinist.

After a brief period in the police, he joined Williams Grand Engineering, where he spent the next 26 years.

Regarded with respect and affection by all, he was last year honoured by Frank Williams for his long service, hard work and loyalty.

He played football, cricket and more recently rugby for Harwell, achieving captaincies in all.

On and off the pitch, he was an inspiration to people of all ages, backgrounds and abilities.

Playing until shortly before his death, he was last year honoured as a life member of Harwell RFC and this year was part of the team that reached the final of the Veterans Cup.

Considered one of the best front row forwards in the county, he thrived on the camaraderie and competition.

He married Lucy, the mother of his three children, in 1977 and honeymooned in Butlins, where he had previously spent many happy holidays as a child.

Although good friends, Jim and Lucy separated in 2000 and he met Mandy in 2005. In 2007, together with Mandy’s daughter Beth, they moved to Appleford, and made new friends, quickly becoming part of the community and discovering a talent for vegetable gardening.

Mr Douglas was looking forward to his starring role as father of the bride at daughter Holly’s wedding on May 9.

Having packed a great deal into too short a life, Mr Douglas died at home on the morning of Saturday, April 18, from a heart attack. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.