SIMON WINTERS and Julie Willoughby were just hoping for a little Facebook help for their wedding after a brutal three months.
The couple had cancelled their original wedding date after Mr Winters’ brother was killed and his father seriously injured in a car crash in May.
And then, in a second blow on Monday, they discovered Miss Willoughby’s father was critically ill with cancer – so Mr Winters’ brother took to Facebook to appeal for help to pull together a new wedding for the couple within the next three weeks.
And in less than 24 hours they have been inudated with more than 100 offers of assistance for everything from the venue to photographers, caterers to even make-up and hair for the bridal party.
Last night 37-year-old Mr Winters said: “It is completely overwhelming.”
Desperate for Miss Willoughby to have her father walk her down the aisle, Mr Winters’ brother, Steve, posted the appeal for help on Wednesday night.
He wrote: “If there is anything you can do to help us in making this wedding happen before it’s too late then we would be so grateful.”
Steve, 35, who lives in Abingdon, said: “I just felt sorry for them and I wanted to do what I could to help them in the circumstances.
- Steve Winters, left, and partner Victoria Lane holding a laptop showing the Facebook post they made asking for help on behalf of his brother Simon and his fiance Julie Willoughby. Picture: OX69307 Cliff Hide
“We just want to get it done so that Julie’s dad is well enough to walk her down the aisle.”
By yesterday afternoon Steve’s post had been liked and shared by nearly 400 people, and dozens have sent messages of help.
The Upper Heyford couple are on track to get married within the next three weeks.
All that they still need is a venue and a caterer.
- Julie Willoughby and her dad Donald
Staff at the Oxford Hotel in Wolvercote saw the Facebook post and yesterday contacted Steve to arrange a meeting with the couple, offering them the use of a room for free.
The couple, who will be sharing their big day with their two children Jack, four, and Lily, one, and Simon’s son Harry, 10.
Simon, 37, a freelance chef, said: “When Steve told us that he’d put it online we were just looking for somebody who could give us a discount on a cake, not be offered things left, right and centre.
“We’re being offered things we didn’t even originally plan. It’s crazy, we can’t believe it.
“It shows there are nice people out there that are offering these things. It’s refreshing. We didn’t expect it.”
The couple, who have been together for eight years after meeting at Gosford Hill School, were due to marry on July 12 at the church and village hall in Upper Heyford.
But they were forced to postpone it after the groom’s brother Paul and father Peter, both originally from Kidlington but recently living in Swindon, were in a serious car crash in Swindon on May 25.
Paul, aged 33, died instantly and Peter, 61, was seriously injured.
- Paul Winters
Simon said they decided to delay the wedding until December “to give everyone time to grieve and to give the family something to look forward to”.
Financial problems from rescheduling their July wedding meant they could not afford to rearrange it soon enough for Miss Willoughby’s father to be well enough.
Mr Willoughby, 71, is waiting for treatment for cancer and has been given weeks to live.
Simon said: “Because of caring for my dad when he was in hospital I had to stop working, and we spent all of the money we’d saved for the wedding on bills and things.”
Miss Willoughby, 35, a service assistant at St Edward’s School, Summertown, said: “I wish we were bringing the wedding forward for a happy reason, not a sad one, but we just want one day where we can switch off and enjoy ourselves.”
ON THE LIST
WHAT people have offered so far:
- DJ and disco
- Chocolate fountain
- Bridesmaids’ dresses
- Chair covers
- Wedding film
- Do you want alerts delivered straight to your phone via our WhatsApp service? Text NEWS or SPORT or NEWS AND SPORT, depending on which services you want, and your full name to 07767 417704. Save our number into your phone's contacts as Oxford Mail WhatsApp and ensure you have WhatsApp installed.
- Send your Letter to the Editor: What do you think? We welcome letters from our readers on a wide variety of subjects and you can send us a letter for publication here
Our top stories
- Managing director Greig Box Turnbull to leave Oxford United at end of season
- Companies still signing up for jobs fair at Oxford Town Hall
- Hundreds will gather as soldier killed in Iraq is repatriated
- Staff and students celebrate actress's big win at the Golden Globes
- Inquests opened into death of couple who died in cottage fire on Blenheim Palace estate
- Inquest opened into death of pensioner found in River Ock in Abingdon