Marc West gets a warm glow after joining Contact The Elderly for one of their Sunday afternoon tea parties

When you were younger, did everyone else’s parents always seem cooler than your own?

But, however, I bet no one else’s grandparents even came close to yours. Despite this, families are segregated like never before and I think we’re in real danger of losing the extended family unit.

In other cultures, the older generations are much more respected than in our fast-paced society.

In some, it’s even still traditional for the elders to actually live with and be cared for by their offspring in their later years.

But, it seems, we could be losing the connection with (let’s face it) the most important people in our lives – sometimes leaving them alone, scared and vulnerable.

Not though, if organisations like Contact The Elderly have anything to do with it.

They’ve shown that reducing social isolation and tackling loneliness is a piece of cake.

Supported by a network of volunteers, the charity organises monthly Sunday afternoon tea parties for those aged 75 and over who live alone – offering a regular and vital friendship link. Each older person is collected by a volunteer driver and taken to a host’s home for an afternoon of food and, as I found, lots of fun!

As we got the kettle on, 97-year-old Rosie Stanfold told me she’s enjoyed a good party since the 1920s (when she was just four years old) and that thanks to these gatherings nothing will ever change that.

Along with the other half a dozen guests (and Socrates the cat), she looks forward to this “reunion” every month – and today is no exception.

There’s a fine spread of crust-less sandwiches, sweet delights and endless tea – which they all tuck into whilst having a good old catch-up.

And, as this particular weekend celebrates the 50th anniversary of the charity, there’s also a special cake accompanied by a rousing rendition of Happy Birthday.

As I help pour the tea for this wonderful bunch, I realise that just sharing a simple cuppa can make a world of difference to their lives – and mine.

Each and every one is a true character and a fountain of knowledge. In her 91 years (and going strong), keen Skype user Hazel Plested has learnt many things she’s keen to pass on – that you’ve got to give something to life to get something back, make sure you’re a good listener and remember to laugh.

She fully embodies the “esprit de corps” of this group – those from a generation she believes has maintained a sense of camaraderie through two world wars with respect, kindness and sincerity.

So, how about putting down your smartphone or tablet and taking some time to donate to others – volunteering has never been more sociable.

They may have a few more wrinkles and a little less hair than the rest of us, but these older boys and girls are still young at heart and fresh of mind. In fact, I think you’ll find they often have more stories than iPlayer could ever impart.

Contact The Elderly runs tea parties throughout Oxfordshire in community settings such as GP surgeries, sheltered accommodation… or your home.

Hosting is flexible and you need only commit to one or two Sundays a year.

Or, why not lend a hand and (like me) help pour the tea and pass round the Garibaldi’s – this month’s gathering is this Sunday in Headington. You might even get a doggy bag to take home for your efforts.

But, if nothing else, you’ll be sure to leave with a warm fuzzy glow.

For all details visit contact-the-elderly.org.uk