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No apology for bipolar 'insult'

A councillor has refused to apologise to a bi-polar sufferer for “accidentally” attacking his condition.

Richard MacKenzie, of Witney, said that he had been “very hurt” by the comment and questioned why he had not received a personal apology.

The 32-year-old has suffered from the condition, which can cause bouts of severe depression and manic episodes, all his life. But it was diagnosed only a year ago.

He got into an argument over the closed Corn Exchange building with Witney Town Council member Peter Dorward on Facebook.

Mr MacKenzie refused to meet in person to discuss the issue, writing: “As you have never even replied to a single email or letter which I have sent you, I really don’t see the point in enduring you in person.”

Mr Dorward then replied: “‘Enduring’ me? Having a bad hair day are youbi-polar (sic), huh?”

Mr Dorward said he had been using two computers at once, had searched for the condition using the wrong keyboard and accidentally entered the typo. He said when he realised, he deleted the comment.

He said: “If anyone was reading the blog at the time I made my mistake, then I apologise for any offence caused.

“I am not apologising to MacKenzie because he has been downright hostile, sour and rude.

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“He was doing this to make a politically- motivated point. It has been blown way out of proportion.”

Mr MacKenzie, of Manor Road, said: “If that is what has happened, that is what has happened.

“But I do not know why he would not want to apologise to me, considering it was directed at me. He apologises to everyone else but not me.”

Mr MacKenzie said he had originally been left “very hurt” by the comment.

He added: “Most of the time I am extremely well but I have not long had a bout where I was severely low. I get into periods of depression and during some of those I have been so depressed I have wanted to end my life.”

The Facebook argument started after Mr Dorward posted a message about the closure of the Corn Exchange, in Market Square.

The town council closed the hall in November after major problems with its masonry, heating and ventilation system, seating, boilers and fire escapes.

Patrick Taylor, director of mental health charity Oxfordshire Mind, said: “I would completely support what Richard has done.

Comments(9)

Your_Kidding says...
7:06am Tue 21 Feb 12

Mr Dorward - grow up and apologise.

You are meant to be in a position of responsibility not acting like a spoilt child name calling in the playground. Grow up and apologise or resign, you are a disgrace to your position.

Shaun the Faun says...
8:44am Tue 21 Feb 12

Mr Dorward seems to be unaware of the old maxim about power and responsibility. Why did he get into the flame-war on Facebook in the first place - as a councillor surely he knows how these things escalate out of control very quickly and that cool heads are needed? So the other guy's comments were provocative... those in public life need to learn to be able not to rise to this stuff. And as for the story of "two computers"....

Seems like Mr Dorward has been to the Keith Mitchell school of "How Not to Make Friends and Influence People".

Act like the public official you are man; apologise and learn an important lesson.

Darkforbid says...
8:54am Tue 21 Feb 12

How can calling someone with bi polar, bi polar ever be a reason for a OM article?

┄┄“Most of the time I am
extremely well but I have not long
had a bout where I was severely
low. I get into periods of
depression and during some of
those I have been so depressed I
have wanted to end my life.”┄┄

That's terrible, how's work going?

Quentin Walker says...
12:12pm Tue 21 Feb 12

To take up the cudgels in politics one needs a thick skin. If you've not got one, regulate your involvement.

Unfortunately, Mr MacKenzie is bipolar - a fact stated by Mr Dorward.

thomashenry says...
4:56pm Tue 21 Feb 12

How disgraceful of the councillor to refuse to apologise. If he thinks that badly typed personal insults are an appropriate way to conduct himself as a public representative, then he is utterly delusional.

What next...

"cheemo gettin 2 u cancer boy?"
"still crying over your beereevement?"

He should unreservedly apologise immediately.

the wizard says...
5:52pm Wed 22 Feb 12

No matter how innocent the faux-pas, and how inadvertent, you should be man enough to apologise and stand by that apology in public and set the example that you are setting out to represent folk, not pass judgement on them, or you will be judged yourself, probably as yet another arrogant stuck up Tory, picking and choosing what you stand for and who you represent. Being affected by any dis order should bring about understanding, it is what goes with the office. Only when you have taken silk and got the wig, do you have the right to judge, until then, be a man, grow a pair and say sorry, the alternative is give up the job.

xjohnx says...
1:19pm Sat 25 Feb 12

It seems to me that the perfect winning reply to the "are you bipolar" put down, is "Yes I am, thank you for the reminder". It shuts most big mouthed idiots up instantly.

xjohnx says...
1:21pm Sat 25 Feb 12

xjohnx wrote:
It seems to me that the perfect winning reply to the "are you bipolar" put down, is "Yes I am, thank you for the reminder". It shuts most big mouthed idiots up instantly.
Mind you I also still think the Corn Exchange fiasco should result in resignations and sackings, at the very least.

the wizard says...
10:00am Wed 29 Feb 12

Some significant time has now passed and no apology has been reported, so I take it Mr Dorward is one of those old fashioned Tories who thinks an apology is beneath him. Some might say a typical stuck up toffee nosed arrogant type, while other may think something else. However, he will be judged now by his actions, or lack of them, which ever the case may be, but the original "crime" if you could call it that remains the same. Others have not forgotten meanwhile, and come election day, this will be remembered by some who may chose to vote accordingly.

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