YOU don’t always have to go with the big, grand gestures to make a point. Sometimes it’s the little things that matter, too.

There is something very poignant about the contrast between Lady Ann Piper’s Remembrance efforts, and those of her son Tom.

A designer of the stunning Tower of London poppy scene, Mr Piper’s striking artwork has caused millions to step back and think of the scale of war as we approach Remembrance Sunday.

But his mother, Lady Ann Piper, has gone to the other end of the spectrum with equal poignancy.

She is one of the Wytham residents who has contributed a tile to help fix the roof of All Saints’ Church. And on many of them, it is hoped there could be the name of a serviceman from the First World War.

This touching tribute means we take a moment to think of someone who gave their life, or served in horrendous conditions, to ensure we could live our lives in peace.

These were our grandfathers, their fathers, their brothers, cousins and neighbours.

These were the men who lived in our towns and villages. Men who would have walked the same streets as us.

Though opting to show their respect for the fallen on very different scales, this contrast between mother and son reminds us of the most important point of all.

Whether grand spectacles in front of the nation or quiet reflection in our communties, it is important we remember.