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Row over fully-dressed woman in sauna

8:25am Tuesday 13th March 2007

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A health club has been criticised for allowing a Muslim woman to go for a swim and sauna while wearing traditional head dress and robe.

The woman was admitted to David Lloyd Leisure, in Garsington Road, Cowley, on Sunday in contravention of the company's own rules on dress.

The decision has been condemned by club member Ian Caldwell, who was in the sauna when the woman walked in and by Muslim community leader Taj Hargey, who said it was "political correctness gone crazy."

Mr Caldwell said: "The woman walked in wearing her head dress and robe down to the floor and I said 'do you think it's appropriate to wear all that gear in the sauna'.

"There were other women in there who felt threatened because they were wearing swimsuits while she was fully dressed.

"She then left and got into the swimming pool. I asked the manager why she was allowed to break the rules and he said they had to observe her religious customs.

"They've got a dress code but they are effectively making exemptions for religious dress. I don't think they should put religious custom over and above health and hygiene. It is customary in this country to wear swim gear in the swimming pool."

Liam Macgilp, general manager at David Lloyd Oxford, said: "Whereas we respect the religious beliefs and customs of all members, the health, hygiene and safety of members is always the first priority.

"The rules are that all members in the sauna or the wet areas of the club should wear swimwear that is less voluminous for the health, safety and hygiene of all its staff and members."

He would not comment on the incident on Sunday which he said he did not witness but said he understood Mr Caldwell's description of the sequence of events to be correct.

Mr Hargey, chairman of muslim group MECO, said: "If this woman wants to wear this garb it's not Islamic custom, it's a cultural tradition which has nothing to do with faith.

"This is political correctness gone crazy and there should be one set of rules and regulations for everyone, regardless of their culture or religion.

"Perhaps she should consider wearing a new Islamic swimsuit that has been designed called the Burqini which covers all the necessary parts.

"That would be one way around it if she wants to preserve her modesty."

Muslim community leader Muhammed Khan said: "Muslim women who choose to use a facility do so through their own free will and hence need to uphold both personal safety, relevant Islamic injunctions pertaining to the matter, as well as the health and safety of other users.

"It seems Muslim women are being permitted to wear clothing, not a swimsuit, that is concealing yet non-voluminous. It would be advisable to clarify what types of clothing would be classed as 'less voluminous'."

Swimsuit was worn at club

We thank all those who have posted on this topic. For your information, the following has appeared in the Oxford Mail today (April 23).

We are also making contact with Ms Omar with a view to a follow-up article.

On March 13, we reported claims that a woman went for a sauna and a swim at Oxford's David Lloyd health club wearing traditional clothing of the sort worn by Muslims.

The story was based on an eyewitness account and was critical of both the unidentified woman involved and the health club. The club confirmed the sequence of events was correct.

In fact the woman at the centre of the story, Manal Omar, wore a five-piece swimsuit specifically designed to allow Muslim women to bathe while preserving their modesty.

Although we published our story in good faith, based on what we knew at the time, we are happy to clarify the situation.

Ms Omar has declined to comment further.


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Nic, Oxford says...
8:36am Tue 13 Mar 07

What is the World coming to........

David.John.Bourton., oxford says...
9:55am Tue 13 Mar 07

I would say she is taking the Michael for want of a better word if you get my drift

Adam D, says...
10:02am Tue 13 Mar 07

Political Correctness gone mad. Either follow the countrys rules, or else theres the door. Religious beliefs my backside. Would they allow a naturist to swim nude??

JK, Oxford says...
10:24am Tue 13 Mar 07

Looking from a health, hygiene and safety point of view - swimming wearing a voluminous floor length dress is actually dangerous as it would be easy for it to become wrapped around legs, come up over the head etc. - not to mention the volume of water that would be carried into the changing areas. Taking a sauna in a voluminous floor length dress must be dangerous from the over-heating aspect - how could you see if someone was actually becoming overheated? It would be more appropriate to establish women/men only sessions to accommodate muslim women and others who might prefer single sex sessions. This is political correctness becoming incorrect!

perieskhan, oxford says...
11:14am Tue 13 Mar 07

Are people in oxford going mad. One woman from a population of 6000 muslims behaved in a manner thats not accepted by any member of community or religion but for people to react and make silly comments is showing the arrogance of our fellow british people. Grow up you silly woman dont use the gym if you dont want to show your bare skin & the people making stupid comments

anon, oxford says...
11:21am Tue 13 Mar 07

I totally agree with you perieskhan. I cannot believe sometimes on these comments sections how narrow-minded and xenophobic people can be.
Andrew Jackson what do you mean in your comment?? Inciting hatred springs to mind....
Yes, this woman did do something a bit stupid, dangerous and against the rules, but we should be having a go at David Lloyd for letting her, despite it being clearly against the fitness club rules regardless of her religion, and agree that she was a bit stupid as she could choose not to go if she didn't want to wear a swimsuit.
We should not, ever, be calling for 'England to be free from this' if you meant what I have taken you to mean Andrew....

Oldster, says...
12:15pm Tue 13 Mar 07

So it will be all right if British women go to this person's country and dress and behave in a western way, provided it's not a health & safety issue? That's fine then.

The British are expected to tolerate the immigrants' customs (some of which are illegal, e.g. they often don't observe the Sex Discrimination Act and force their children's marriages). Yet it is taken for granted that the immigrants do not have to reciprocate this tolerance in any way, either in their own country or here.

(My father was an immigrant, but felt privileged to live here, and would have considered it rude not to observe this country's ways.)

Mr, Town says...
12:20pm Tue 13 Mar 07

This is ridculas, a man who clearly is making a stupid point. I saw this woman swimming at DL and it was not dangerous or offensive. She wore a full-length suit, like an aqua blade they wear in the Olympics and a tabard type thing over it with a short hem bit that went into a skirt. It was so short that it would not be dangerous. I can't see how it is any more unhygienic than anything else. Her hair was covered for one. Some people wear underwear in the pool! This man obviously has some other motive.

K, says...
12:29pm Tue 13 Mar 07

I have always subscribed to when in another country respect their ways dress wise and religous wise, why then can't those who choose to live here subscribe to the same thing?
instead of trying to make this country in what they Chose to leave behind! simple thing is respect but these days very few have it any more.

av, oxford says...
12:31pm Tue 13 Mar 07

why on earth did the swimming costume clad ladies feel threatend ? the lady who wore the body costume has the same rights as you to be there. Crikey have you nothing better to do than complain. I sat in a sauna a while ago and a very very large person came in, there where comments when he left what is ok these days no one fits in anywhere anymore...

Amanda, Oxford says...
12:46pm Tue 13 Mar 07

Why is it that some of the comments above seem to assume that just because this lady is Muslim, she is not British? Strange. So long as nothing illegal is going on, we should all respect the beliefs of others, even if different to our own.

mitchshrader, tasmania says...
12:58pm Tue 13 Mar 07

You've given up knives and guns, the rights to self defense, and your culture.

Pity, that. Gutless, was it? No nerve, giving it back to the abo's, what?

Not surprised, no moral fiber. Be glad when they just give over, it's painful to watch.

The lack of capital punishment, guns, and individual pride has dissolved the British spirit. No lumpy bits left, you can flush now.

Jenny, says...
12:59pm Tue 13 Mar 07

I am ashamed to be british. Just look at yourselves and the ridiculous comments you are coming out with. Our own obsession with political correctness has caused this. We are one nation, we should have one set of rules and that would stop this segration. I am proud that our country accepts people from all heritages and I am utterly ashamed at the comments some of you are making. Do you feel the same about the people of french and german origin living in this country?

Carlos A, Cowley says...
2:55pm Tue 13 Mar 07

Rules are rules, if you dont like them dont go in there? If she was wearing the special swim wear fair enough no problem. But if she was wearing the clothes described in the article its not acceptable. I cant wear certain items of clothing everywhere and i wear some of it for safety. Eg motorcycle leathers, helmets, hoodies, beanies and baseball caps.

Jenny i am proud to be british, not ashamed of myself at all. We do have one set of rules its just people wont follow them as they dont fit in with thier life style, you never walk into somewhere to see a board with rules for english, rules for asians, rules for europeans etc!


kelbun, Chipping Norton says...
4:19pm Tue 13 Mar 07

I would like to point out to Carlos that there are seperate rules. I cannot go into a bank wearing my crash helmet covering my face or any other garment, yet Muslim women can wear their veils etc.

Chris, Didcot says...
5:09pm Tue 13 Mar 07

What - you are supposed to wear swimwear in a sauna in Britain? That's disgusting! _Any_ piece of clothing in a sauna is too much. See Scandinavia!

Sienna, Headington,oxford says...
6:39pm Tue 13 Mar 07

that is what i dislike about other cultures in this country-and no im not being racist before anyone jumps to that assumption! If i went to an asian country i would respect their culture and abide by their rules,This country is slowly changing to adapt to include their way's,My daughter is now singing Ba ba blue sheep! How ridiculous! We are alway's accused of being racist,when all we are asking for is our law and rules to be respected too,What gave this woman the right to do what she wanted? Also,what about our traditional christmas-That has changed,were being told that we cant have decorations up in headington incase it offended the indian's! Father christmas i noticed was white this year in the clarendon centre-What is going on,its like walking on eggshells.

Paul, Witney says...
7:00pm Tue 13 Mar 07

Its pathetic!

If i went to a swimming pool in a country mainly populated by Muslims i would not be allowed to go in there with just my pink speedos on so why should we treat them differently.

The trouble is whenever people like myself get heated over issues like this it gets branded as rascist or being a bigot.

Thats not the case at all. It;s just that surely a multi cultural society (which is supposed to be what we are nowadays) should consist of everyone abiding by the same laws. That my friends is not what some Muslims and people of other faiths abide to.

Also fed up with goody two shoes sticking up for them regardless!

Sienna, headington,oxford says...
7:08pm Tue 13 Mar 07

Paul-I think if you went into a pool over here in pink speedo's you would still have a problem! lol just kidding,Totally agree with your comment.:-)

Free Thinker, oxford says...
7:24pm Tue 13 Mar 07

One thing i find strange is why would anybody want to go in a sauna fully clothed? Oh yes because a religion say's so. Would all those who are ashamed by some of the comments made back the rights for a National Socialist to Goose step about the place in Jackboots and Swastikas? Probably not but that would be consistent in their support of people to behave according to their beliefs! This Multi cultural society is now becoming a multi directional mess.

Paul, Witney says...
8:51pm Tue 13 Mar 07

Completely agree free thinker - The whole phrase "multi cultural" is just a term given to modern name society to try and make it sound acceptable.

Sienna - If you ever want any photos sending let me know lol

Phil Rees, Oxon says...
9:13pm Tue 13 Mar 07

I wish that people who say that they are proud to be British would, at least, spell British with a capital B.

Andrew Jackson, Oxford says...
9:38pm Tue 13 Mar 07

Thank you Anon for your comments. I am proud to be English and I feel sad that our English way of life that my grandfather fought so hard to defend is being eroded away piece by piece. All the time people seem to be burying their heads in the sand and allowing our once great country to be taken over by others. I hope you one day will wake up when all our beautiful churches are being demolished and mosques built in their place. Salaam!

kelbun, Chipping Norton says...
10:51pm Tue 13 Mar 07

Andrew Jackson wrote:
Thank you Anon for your comments. I am proud to be English and I feel sad that our English way of life that my grandfather fought so hard to defend is being eroded away piece by piece. All the time people seem to be burying their heads in the sand and allowing our once great country to be taken over by others. I hope you one day will wake up when all our beautiful churches are being demolished and mosques built in their place. Salaam!
"Here Here"

Jenny, says...
2:16pm Wed 14 Mar 07

Andrew Jackson and Kelburn. Has it occured to you that you may be wrong, biggotted and ignorant? Particularly as Andrew Jackson's post actually had to be removed from this site due to it's racial hatred?

Klaus Boerts, Bocholt, Germany says...
1:08pm Thu 15 Mar 07

It's the same as in Germany. Also here Muslims are allowed to swim fully dressed. If they can't accept our rules, they should leave Europe!

terry c, says...
1:25am Mon 19 Mar 07

Jenny wrote:
I am ashamed to be british. Just look at yourselves and the ridiculous comments you are coming out with. Our own obsession with political correctness has caused this. We are one nation, we should have one set of rules and that would stop this segration. I am proud that our country accepts people from all heritages and I am utterly ashamed at the comments some of you are making. Do you feel the same about the people of french and german origin living in this country?
yep, especially the french

Ayisha, London says...
5:40pm Mon 19 Mar 07

"Fully dressed woman in sauna" ??? How ridiculous that today's media reporting so grossly distorts the facts. The woman was wearing a bathing suit which was designed with Muslim women in mind, and thus covers the required body parts. It perfectly meets health and safety guidelines, and as a bathing suit is not something new on the market. It has even been picked up by media outlets from Newsweek to National Geographic. The bikini was designed to expose as much of a woman's flesh and possible and this was designed to do the opposite. Why anyone should feel threatened bc a woman chooses to cover up, as opposed to exposing herself, is ludicrous. Each to their own, and as far as I was aware, women in the UK are supposed to have the right and freedom to choose how they wish to dress. The racism and prejudice oozing out of the comments is shocking and a reflection of a sad state of affairs.

huh!?, London says...
7:39am Fri 20 Apr 07

Adam D wrote:
Political Correctness gone mad. Either follow the countrys rules, or else theres the door. Religious beliefs my backside. Would they allow a naturist to swim nude??
Um, I don't think naturism is a relgion

huh!?, London says...
7:42am Fri 20 Apr 07

The woman in question was wearing a 5 piece swimsuit designed for muslim women. It's made of the same material as most swimmwear and, apparently, she'd been wearing it for six months at the health club before the somewhat misguided and overzealous "complaint."

As Oxford Mail did not think to get her side of the story, you might want to read it at:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/religion/Story/0,,2061725,00.html


John, says...
8:14am Fri 20 Apr 07

Shockingly shoddy if not irresponsible reporting by the Oxford Mail if only half of the story in The Guardian is true.

Diarmuid, Manchester says...
8:21am Fri 20 Apr 07

Let's be honest about things here: your objections about Manal Omar's swimsut are really because she is a Muslim. You can squeal that this has nothing to do with it, but Ian Caldwell wouldn't have opened his big mouth if he'd seen a white woman dressed in some nineteenth century swimwear. Nobody really ves a toss what people wear to the swimming pool. People DO give a toss about muslims...close-minded people like Caldwell and a lot of you here don't like Muslims at all.
As for whether or not "we" would be allowed to wear what we like in Muslim countries: I have lived in a Muslim country and can assure you that there a many Europeans wearing clothes that are inappropriate; many Europeans who stock up on alcohol; many Europeans who buy pork products; many Europeans who bu English newspapers; many Europeans who get paid European wages whilst their co-workers earn much less. So quit whining about how people who come to this country should accept "our" values or leave. The English are famed throughout the world for being particularly bad at assimilating to the culture of the country in which they find themselves. Next time you're in the Costa del Sol, you might want to consider that the fat, beered-up prawn shouting next to you might not be truly indicative of Spanish culture.

mike docherty, Glasgow says...
9:18am Fri 20 Apr 07

The paper, the "journalist" and those earlier commentators should hang their heads in shame! Read the Guardian article.

Charlie, Manchester says...
9:20am Fri 20 Apr 07

This is a one sided story. I suggest that you read what the lady in question has to say before making comments. Her article can be found at... http://www.guardian.co.uk/religion/Story/0,,2061725,00.html

Dave Hansell, says...
9:28am Fri 20 Apr 07

Its interesting and illuminating just how many people are prepared to instantly go half cocked into indignant mode over issues like this without ckecking the facts.

It's like a gang of bullies in a school playground who are clearly so inadequate that they have to find some excuse, no matter how far fetched to whinge about. For crying out loud since when did someone wanting to dress modestly whilst participating in leisure activities have anything to do with "British/English" values - whatever they are.

Perhaps if she'd bared her top and done a photo shoot for page 3 of the Sun that would have satisfied the pathetic bullies and cowards like Mr caldwell (whose behavior at this club in humiliating this educated and intelligent woman shames us all), and those who take the same view, that she was displaying the politically correct British/English values they espouse?

What I also find tiresome is people like Mr caldwell & those like him going off half cocked taking it upon themselves to not only define what "proper British/English" values are but to claim by default that they speak for the rest of us with their bigoted bullying attitudes.

A period of reflective silence on their part is probably the best contribution they can bring to this discussion.

steve, Oxford says...
9:51am Fri 20 Apr 07

I found this story after reading the article in the guardian that's been cited above. I've got to admit that the behaviour of Mr Caldwell, the Oxford mail and to a certain extent DL gym makes me feel ashamed to live here. I'm vocally secular, and I think that some dress codes must be repected irrespective of faith (like school uniforms). However, in this case I have no objections.

Perhaps if more modest swimwear were widely available, the people who don't feel comfortable with their bodies might be happier to go swimming, Muslim or otherwise. The whole thing sounds like the 'political correctness gone crazy' lobby has gone crazy themselves here.

Lizzy, London says...
9:54am Fri 20 Apr 07

Poor reporting, one sided stories and prejudiced readers - I feel ashamed to come from a country where not only is a report like this published, but short-sighted, racist people are so quick to jump on the band wagon without engaging their brains.

Read the Guardian story. Oxford Mail - you should be embarrassed to publish something so unbalanced and intrinsically racist.

truthhurts, london says...
9:54am Fri 20 Apr 07

the most pathetic article I have ever read - you clowns in are so out of touch with the reality of choice and freedom it is shocking. Shame on you for even reporting this blatent xenophobic episode

Katie, Oxford says...
10:24am Fri 20 Apr 07

Having read today's article in the Guardian regarding Manal Omar's treatment, after wearing perfectly reasonable swimwear, I am ashamed that someone can be treated this way in 'our country'. I always hoped, futile though it is, that people could see through the rubbish that is published in Newspapers, but it seems not. I am a Christian white 26-year-old woman and have never felt intimidated by Muslim's women's clothing choices. I do, however, feel intimidated by middle aged men who refer to women as “silly girls”.

Anonymous Coward, London says...
10:35am Fri 20 Apr 07

What a **** this Ian Caldwell bloke sounds like. I read the story in the Guardian then came to read the article here. What a dickhead.

Si Brandon, London says...
10:44am Fri 20 Apr 07

"The decision has been condemned by club member Ian Caldwell"

This week: Ian Caldwell, a member of David Lloyd Fitness Clubs' Oxford gym, condemns brown people, A-line skirts and the sex discrimination act, and explains why 'string 'em up' is the only language they understand.

Paul, says...
10:58am Fri 20 Apr 07

Will the Oxford mail now have the guts to reproduce the Guardian's article from today by Manal Omar? Or will it be content to perpetuate stereotypes and pander to the likes of Caldwell? Which side are you on Fran Bardsley and Simon O'Neill?

maggied, Glasgow says...
11:02am Fri 20 Apr 07

So Oxford Mail- having obviously been completely biased and factually wrong in your coverage about this 'issue' you will be publishing a prominent apology/ correction/ retraction- won't you?

Elaine Harrison, Barcelona, Spain says...
11:12am Fri 20 Apr 07

Dear Miss Omar, I've just read your article in the Guardian on-line and although it may not be of much comfort I would just like to say to you, inspite of all this madness, please go back to the swimming pool, live your life as you wish, dressed as you like because believe it or not there are still an awful lot of us out there who really don't mind how or why you dress differently". Chin up! E. Harrison

Lily, nonbigotville says...
11:22am Fri 20 Apr 07

I have just read the well researched version of this story, (the lady in question was indeed wearing a swimsuit, just an islamic style one) and this narrow minded version of events makes me laugh, but in a sad way. How do people still act like this to others without feeling ashamed!?

Peter, says...
11:30am Fri 20 Apr 07

Oh dear, poor Mr Caldwell. Unable to tell the difference between an islamic swimsuit and islamic clothing designed for the outside. Also, pity the Oxford Mail for failing to check the facts. It makes you wonder if you can believe anything that they print really.

Are you going to apologise Fran? I think you should.

Kate, Oxford says...
12:01pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I also saw the Guardian article and was shocked that Manal Omar had not even been contacted for her side of the story by the Oxford Mail.

I fail to see why what Ms Omar was wearing was any business of anyone else's - it was a swimsuit. People like Ian Caldwell do not have the right to dictate what others wear. The bigoted comments I have read above have made Ms Omar feel unwelcome here and leave a nasty taste in the mouth of Oxford residents such as me.

Mark, Oxford says...
12:15pm Fri 20 Apr 07

What an absolute disgrace this article is, an appalling piece of lame bandwagon jumping by the Oxford Mail.

Mr Caldwell paints himself as a bigot whose pathetic world views only highlight his own limitations

I am a member of this gym and I am absolutely disgusted with the way this woman has been treated. She is a member who pays her fees just like the rest of us

Yes her swimsuit is appropriate and Yes it is hygenic

I have absolutely no issue with her swimming at the gym and have been greatly saddened to hear that she now does not wish to return to the gy. What a sad sad end to a piece of thoughtless behaviour by Ian Caldwell who should have known better.

Ms Omar if you read this please return to the gym where I am certain you will find Ian Caldwell an isolated figure.

Mr Caldwell if you are reading this I would suggest you be the one to take yourself elsewhere. You are not welcome at Oxford David Lloyd

Dan, oxford says...
12:34pm Fri 20 Apr 07

What we should all be told is who pushed this story onto the newswires in the first place?

The way this story has so quickly permeated through stories around the world indicates a depressing thirst for bigotted anti-muslim reporting.

The Oxford Mail should be ashamed of itself for setting this ugly story in motion
and issue a full apology to Ms Omar.

Patrick Sweeney, Canterbury says...
12:39pm Fri 20 Apr 07

So in the 60s, everyone complained that swimsuits were too revealing, and now somebody wears a, admittedly unconventional swimsuit to a local pool, and gets the kind of frankly racist abuse we read above - it is times like this that I think it is you Daily Mail readers are the people who should be kicked out of the country.

Britain is, in my opinion, the greatest example of multiculturalism on the face of the globe, and I am extremely proud of the acceptance that the vast majority of the British public show in the face of the troubled times in which we live.

If Ms. Omar wishes to wear her 'inappropriate' swimwear in a sauna, whose business is it really but hers? Ok, so I personally wouldn't want to wear such garments in there - they make me sweat enough as it is - but to suggest that she should not be allowed to wear a perfectly safe and hygenic garment, simply because of one mans sheer racism and bigotry is appaling.

'Political correctness gone mad' is a phrase that has now been overused to the point that it has lost its meaning.

Rob, London says...
12:43pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I applaud the Guardian for giving Ms Omar a platform to give her side of the story. I am disheartened by the knee-jerk reaction (at best) and racist overtones (at worst) of both Mr Caldwell and the Oxford Mail. Lazy, jingoistic reporting that helps no-one, and adds to inaccurate stereotypes and perceptions

Patrick Sweeney, Canterbury says...
12:44pm Fri 20 Apr 07

PS Many apologies for the numerous grammatical and spelling errors in my post above - I wrote it in a bit of a rage!

Charlotte, London says...
12:54pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I personally am feeling very ashamed to be British after reading Ms Bardsley's article and then the Guardian article by Ms Omar. I agree with everyone else who has read her side and posted above. So I haven't much more to add, except that I would like to apologise to Ms Omar if you are reading this, on behalf of people who are clearly not bright enough to know any better. (To Andrew Jackson: it's 'hear hear' you know! Not that I would ever agree with you and your views.)

Racist bigotry, and unreasoned hatred of the unfamiliar, are sadly all too common in the UK. Ms Omar, I sincerely hope that, during your stay here, you will meet more sympathetic and people who are willing to see beyond the 'Muslim label' you seem to have been assigned!

(Oxford Mail = Daily Mail)

James, South England says...
12:56pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Dear Oxford Mail & Caldwell. What is the matter with you bigoted imbeciles?

You find this offensive? an individual going about there business in their own choice of clothing. No offensive slogans on her clothes. Not barging about swearing at the top of her voice. Not expecting other people to do what she wants. There has been multi cultural immigration to this great country since the 14th century. This is England, we stood alone against the third reich to allow people their personal freedom. As "journalists" you should be ashamed. You haven't approached this lady for her side of the story. This proves that you are a bunch of unprofessional hacks who are running your own bigoted agenda. I'm truely disgusted with those in this nation who can't wait to attack a person because they are different.

Dear Ms Omar
Please don't let this idiot stear any of your decisions. We can't let these people degrade our society. Please, keep on swimming.

Simon O'Neill, Oxford Mail says...
1:02pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Manal Omar is right about one thing at least. There are two sides to every story. What a pity she did not give us her's at the time, or after publication of our story about her going for a swim at an Oxford pool in a 'costume' designed for Muslim women.

We take strong issue with the G2 article about Ms Omar's experiences in several respects, particularly the inaccurate claim that we at the Oxford Mail chose to ignore her version of events.

On the contrary, we were desperate to contact Ms Omar and speak with her, as it would have made for a far more interesting piece. However, we did not know her identity and had no way of finding it out. Unlike some national newspapers, we refuse to use underhand or illegal methods to track people down.

Therefore, the story ran as it was, based on confirmation from the leisure centre and people who were there at the time.

We have no record of Ms Omar contacting us via our website and if she did, we would have that on our system.

We have now tracked her down and asked her for an interview. She has declined.

Our story was a legitimate one, as the issue of traditional outfits worn by Islamic women is the subject of a debate nationwide. We would be failing in our duty if we chose not to report it for fear of causing upset and we stand by it as an accurate report based on the facts that we had at the time.

We reject the allegation (based on a few idiots responding to the story online) that the Oxford Mail and its readers are overwhelmingly anti-Muslim or indeed racist. On the contrary, this is one of the most tolerant cities in Britain and this newspaper strives to reflect that. A trawl though our archives will prove that beyond any doubt.

If the Guardian or Ms Omar had thought of contacting us before publication of this article, we could have been given an opportunity to put our version of events. We would have been happy to respond and add to the debate. But that might have weakened her story, so it's probably best that she did not bother.

The outcome was the very thing we have been wrongly accused of: a sensationalist, one-sided article which labelled a modern, multi-cultural city and the staff of its local newspaper as a bunch of reactionary rednecks.

Simon O'Neill, editor, Oxford Mail

James, Brighton says...
1:08pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I agree, Charlotte - Oxford Mail = Daily Mail. What a sad state of affairs, both from that Caldwell character and the journalist. I can't believe it never occured to Fran Bardsley to get Manal's side of the story. But I suppose that's what you get from a small minded, amateurish, local paper. I fully support Manal Omar.

Lilly, nonbigotville says...
1:12pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Actually according to Ms. Omar she did contact the Oxford Mail offering her story. Despite your response the journalism displayed was exceedingly bad. No amount of explanation will absolve the fact that bigotry and prejudice has been displayed via this newspaper. I hope people the world over realise not everyone in Britain is like this. And i think it's hypocrticial to be calling the people responding to this story "idiots".

Lucy Henderson, Paris says...
1:12pm Fri 20 Apr 07

You couldn't have tried THAT hard to track her down.

Surely the David Lloyd leisure centre would have her membership details on file?


Yolande knight, says...
1:16pm Fri 20 Apr 07

It is staggering that someone wearing something slightly out of the norm should bring about such a storm of ignorant nonsense. How threatened these people must feel, to react as such. I applaud Ms Omar in finding something to wear that allows her to do what she wants according to her own needs. I would never wear a string bikini to swim in (if you swim well, string bikinis are not really practical), but there doesn't seem to be any noise about women wearing those in pools.

I once had to swim behind a man wearing a white see-through thong in a public swimming pool (50m). That was quite upsetting.

LW Jolly, Reading, Berks. says...
1:19pm Fri 20 Apr 07

So I looked at the pictures of this swimming costume. How on earth did you get 'traditional floor length robe' out of THAT? It's a wetsuit with a minidress on top and a little head thing. Jesus. I reckon it's going to destroy Western Civilisation all right! You lot say you tried to contact her and couldn't. She says she tried to contact you and you never responded. I find her a lot more beleivable considering the tone of the article.

Stu, London says...
1:19pm Fri 20 Apr 07

No way of finding out her identity.... er are you reporters.... ask the David Lloyd club, I seem to recall this being a members club, where presumably they might have membership details - it being a MEMBERS club remember. If they were reluctant to give out details like that, and i hope they would be, they could have at least contacted her on your behalf.

Also at no point did anyone not question the fact that it might be fairly impractical to go swimming in the full regalia (hijab etc.)?

Colo, says...
1:29pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I cannot belived this... Britain a countryu that talks about freedon and you cannot let a woman feel free in her own convictions!!! And is better to search de information before saying whar=t ever. This swimming suite is special made for musulim women, to swim. Is not like if she had taken out from her closet a pijama to wear in the pool. It is really a shame to speak of freedom but being incapable of tolerating somebody that doesn't do what you do and worst, with somthing as stupid as a swimming suite!!!

Adrian, Maidenhead says...
1:32pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I am honestly dumbfounded that the Oxford Mail can be so journalistically lazy. We all know there's bigoted idots out there, but more is expected of a newspaper and its reporters.

KK, Sheffield says...
1:35pm Fri 20 Apr 07

The Oxford Mail got its facts wrong. Instead of defending their incompetence, they should be issuing an apology and retracting their story.

Arfur, oxford says...
1:40pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Ah the chattering classes and their moral indignation.
I agree with Manal Omar - she should be allowed to wear whatever she wants and it is clear that Mr Caldwell has a bit of an agenda.
But you lot with your finger pointing are ridiculous. It's no wonder us Guardian readers have a bad name.
I read the Oxford Mail regularly. It's not perfect but bigoted and racist it is not. Look at the link below for a follow up story they did to Ms Omar's story. And remember this was printed a month ago - long before the Guardian printed its horrific one-sided story.
I can imagine David Lloyd would not give out Ms Omar's number and probably wouldn't be too keen on tracking her down so the whole thing might blow over. However, what is the Guardian's excuse for not contacting staff at the Mail? Their number and contact details are easy to obtain.
The Oxford Mail says it didn't receive anything from Ms Omar - perhaps it isn't a conspiracy but a mistake at one end or another?
Anyway don't let the facts get in the way of your blind PC thuggery.
http://www.oxfordmail.net/search/display.var.1267335.0.muslim_urges_keep_swimming.php

Richard, wales says...
1:48pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Mr O'Neill - the root problem with your story is that it is factually incorrect. Manal Omal was not wearing "traditional headdress and garb", she was wearing a swimming costume designed for muslim women. Because of that fundamental mistake, the angle of the story is misconceived, and the story itself is misleading and inaccurate, and, as such, arguably designed to pander to anti-muslim paranoia.
Your reporter may have been wrong-footed by the manager's comments, and whatever difficulties you may have had in tracking Ms Omal down, the fact remains - your story was factually incorrect and for that you should apologise. Are you going to?

Dave Hansell, Sheffield says...
1:58pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Sorry Mr O'Neil, as my old Sergeant used to say "you are talking bullshit lad."

Your pitiful attempt to wiggle your way out of responsibility for your sloppy journalism won't wash.

The fact that your first point of call after taking the word of the sad excuse for an Englishman Mr Caldwell and the manager of the facility was to get a quote from a lcoal Muslim "community leader." If a newspaper of your size cannot easily track down this lady to get her side of the story you could not have been trying very hard - particularly when she did contact your paper and recieved no response back before the article was printed.

Trying to blame the victim of your actions for not contacting you after this rabid piece of gutter journalism is also despicable. If I'd have been in the same or similar position, having been humiliated and lied about in public and had that humiliation amplified in the way you have done I certainly would not bother with you as you've clearly nailed your colours to the mast in terms of where you and your paper are coming from.

What is clear is that like Mr Caldwell you have no idea whatsoever about what real British/English values actually are.

If you had put your hands up in response to this comment thread and said OK, fair cop, we screwed up we are sorry, most reasonable people would have given you the benefit of the doubt.

Now all you have done is blown that opportunity by pouring further oil on the fire trying to excuse the inexcusable.

Jose, Oxford says...
2:05pm Fri 20 Apr 07

The attempt by the Oxford editor to justify this article is pathetic. How many of the people who supposedly corroborated Ian Caldwell's story were eyewitnesses to the incident? And since when did criticism of the Oxford Mail become criticism of all of Oxford? It is the paper which is dragging the city's name through the mud with it's vile reporting.

If Simon O'Neill and Fran Bardsley cannot bring themselves to apoligise they should be sacked.

Richard, Wales says...
2:21pm Fri 20 Apr 07

As suggested by another poster, I looked at the Oxford Mail's follow-up story about a muslim woman urging other muslim women not to give up swimming. The basic mistake of the original story is repeated in the follow-up but take a look at the posted comments. They are horrendous. Mr O'Neill - are you happy that your paper is giving a platform to comments like that?

bee, Oxford says...
2:25pm Fri 20 Apr 07

What an utterly pathetic, lazy piece of journalism. She was not wearing a "floor-length dress", nor was she "fully dressed" - she was wearing a body covering bathing suit. What a strange pass we have come to when a woman showing *no flesh* is condemned for "dressing inappropriately."
She was not harming anyone, or forcing her views on anyone - so why are so many of you so cheerfully condemning this poor woman? I am utterly ashamed to live in this city sometimes.

Dave Hansell, Sheffield says...
2:30pm Fri 20 Apr 07

To respond to "Arfurs" point with his URL link to another Oxford Mail story.

Arfur, I think you are missing the point. An individual was publicly humiliated, patronised and bullied at this facility and then found themselves the subject of the same behavior through this newspaper article with no serious attempt to get her side of the story before going to print.

What the Oxford Mail choose to highlight through this incident affecting an individual was to use it to not only further humiliate the individual but also to widen it out to a specific community.

The link you have provided again focuses on the collective and again totaly ignores the individual victim.

I'll repeat, the onus is not on the individual victim to chase up the newspaper before and after the fact. When someone mugs YOU in the street you don't go round to there house to seek redress and remonstrate with them you go elsewher, to the police.

This is what this individual lady has done here. After being ignored by the Oxford Mail and treated shabbily as an individual - used by the paper to provide a platform for the brain-dead bigots amongst us that give us all a bad name - she has gone elswhere for redress.

I'd suggest in the same circumstances you would do the same. As would most people.

The attempt at diverting the issue towards "politically correct Guardian reading finger pointers" is almost as desperate Mr O'Neil's excuses.

tarquin, oxford says...
3:12pm Fri 20 Apr 07

It's good to see the herd instinct, group-think reaction of the chattering classes is alive and well.
When there's a story about Muslims, immigration or race, the Oxford Mail website usually beseiged with lots of crap from BNP activists in Lancashire. Now it's being beseiged by sheeple in London and Kent. You self-righteous twerps - you're clearly less bothered about Muslims than just having a Friday rant. I'm as sick of you lot as I am the rightwing illiterates.

Alas I am a Guardian reader - but only on Saturday when it's got the Guide section in it (which almost certainly saves the Saturday paper from sinking into oblivion)

mike docherty, Glasgow says...
3:17pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Mr O'Neill - despite your attempts to justify your coverage of this story it seems clear that the account provided in your paper is inaccurate and has served primarily to support the position of Mr Caldwell and others like him (as can be seen by the initial responses to the article in your paper). Whether deliberately or not, you appear to have pandered to the very kind of racism which you claim your paper is known to oppose. At the very least you should offer an apology to Ms Omar. I would suggest that you also need to carefully consider the impact of articles which reinforce racist stereotypes and be sure before you print them that you have the facts right.

mike docherty, Glasgow says...
3:24pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Ah Tarquin - resorting to personal abuse....tut tut

Rob, London says...
3:25pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Simon O'Neill - your response betrays your and your papers lack of sincerity in this matter. You seem to blame Ms Omar herself, and seek justify a wholly biased and inaccurate article. Additionally you call those criticising you (around 80% of commenters) idiots.
Glad I don't have to read your rag down here in London, we have plenty such drivel here anyway. Admit you were wrong in this case.

Gordon, says...
3:26pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I was first alerted to this story via the Guardian ('I felt more welcome in the Bible belt' Friday April 20, 2007) and am very impressed with the contradictions in details, not to mention the underlying tone, in your article. When did you decide to ignore the viewpoint of the other person involved and just present a biased and ignorant assertion?
What I find quite interesting is that your article is obviously aware of the 'Burqini' and yet the reporter never thought to verify as to whether this was the article worn.
Congratulations, let's forget basic research for our articles and just present crass hearsay.

Dave Hansell, Sheffield says...
3:35pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Interesting example of displacement you display there tarquin.

I'll have to remember next time I see someone fall over in the street; kids throwing stuff at other peoples windows; or a group of self-styled big brave sons of England squaring up to beat up some bespectacled 8 stone dripping wet hulk, to cross over the road and keep my counsel rather than being a responsible citizen and either offering help and support/assistance in case my behavior gets labelled "herd like"; or worse - I get labelled as one of the "chattering classes."

Perhaps I and others should apologise to you and the rest of the self appointed guardians of what you see as British/English values for our shocking display of un-british behavior in not joining in the kicking this lady has recieved from this paper and others involved?

Would you perhaps prefer it if the civilised and responsible citizens that still remain here paying our taxes were to voluntarily deport ourselves elsewhere so as not to upset the delicate sensibilities of those of you who make up the real mob/herd on this island.

It must be such a bore when others challenge this boorish behavior.

lolliepopp, London says...
3:40pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Shame on the Oxford Mail for trying to justify it's bigoted journalism and placing blame on the victim Manal Omal. So many aspects of your story were obviously untrue and no attempts were made to find out both sides of the story. Is this what journalism means nowadays? Glad to see all your education wasn't in vain eh?

You are the newspaper of a multicultural and world famous educated city. How could you spread such racist bile to your readers? I'm astounded.

And as for Mr Caldwell, sir I find your hat, coat and face offensive. I would however, tolerate it if you weren't causing harm to others around you. As you seem incapable of doing this I suggest you take yourself home and do what you will behind close doors.

Helen R, London, UK says...
3:42pm Fri 20 Apr 07

This lady wasn't wearing street-clothes, but full-body swimming clothes, which are widely available. I'm surprised they don't catch on more, given that many women feel very exposed in a normal swimsuit - and many don't swim for that reason, which means that *they* are being restricted by western cultural norms. It's common to condemn Islam for restricting women's freedom, without ever noting that British culture does it too, in different ways. Let us cover up if we want to, Muslim or not! In Australia it's now normal to clothe children in full-length swim suits, to guard against sun damage. It is *not* a health or hygiene hazard. The way this woman was treated seems quite appalling.

Alison m, Oxford says...
4:01pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I too am horrified by the shameful way Ms Omar has been treated throughout this saga: by the bigoted Mr Caldwell who behaved in a racist, misogynistic and incredibly rude and arrogant way, and who for some unknown reason thinks he has a right to dictate how women should dress; to the staff at David Lloyd who should have been quick to defend her choice of swimwear, particularly as they had been happy for her to use it during the previous 6 months; then by the General Manager, who did not get his facts straight from his staff, thereby confirming Caldwell’s nonsensensical statement that she was wearing ‘a traditional head dress and robe down to the floor’; and perhaps worst of all, by the Oxford Mail’s refusal to admit the potentially genuine but nonetheless glaringly untruthful mistake printed in their article and print an apology.

It is probably fair to say that the intention of the Oxford Mail was probably not to fuel racist behaviour (although it was clearly one-sided and sensationalist), and as has been pointed out above, Oxford is in general not a racist place. However, if the Mail wants to retain any shred of respectability after picking on a woman for managing to successfully accommodate the requirements of her religious beliefs within the activities that she wishes to do, it must apologise and tell the real story, and condemn the bigoted and inflammatory comments posted in response to the original story.

tarquin, oxford says...
4:16pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Hmm. If the Oxford Mail is as awful, one-sided and bigoted as the Guardian's rapid reaction force claim, how come it's let the Guardianistas publish so many comments critical of the paper and its staff?



F.F., says...
4:54pm Fri 20 Apr 07

tarquin wrote:
Hmm. If the Oxford Mail is as awful, one-sided and bigoted as the Guardian\'s rapid reaction force claim, how come it\'s let the Guardianistas publish so many comments critical of the paper and its staff?
They can hold such views without feeling the need to deny others the right to express theirs.
The paper's claim to have been unable to track down the lady might be genuine, but scroll to the top and you'll see that an eyewitness posted here on 12:20pm Tue 13 Mar 07 giving the correct information - did they make any attempt to track this person? They would have the email address of the poster, that's for sure.

tarquin, oxford says...
5:10pm Fri 20 Apr 07

FF, The eyewitness posted the comment IN RESPONSE to the newspaper story being published ... it's difficult to see how the newspaper could interview this person without invoking clairvoyant powers.

Haz, OXFORD says...
6:01pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Many of the posters on here simply haven't read the response from the paper, or have done so selectively.
While I do not agree with its tone, I am a regular reader and I have never seen any evidence of a racist or reactionary agenda in the Oxford Mail.
On the contrary, most of the coverage I have seen of minorities has been balanced and supportive.
A few other points need making:
1) The paper printed what it knew AT THE TIME. Now we've all got the benefit of hindsight, which is a wonderful thing.
2) The original story has turned out to be wrong and it has attempted to run another article, but the lady concerned has said No. The paper has also hosted this debate on its own website, which contains stinging attacks on it, without interference or censorship.
3) How could it have interviewed her when it did not know who she was? The assumption that the reporter could just get her details from the leisure club is plain daft. There is such a thing as data protection you know!
4) She has NOT, as far as I can see, asked for an apology, but has instead launched an attack on the paper and Oxford in a national newspaper. Fair enough in the case of the former, but not the latter. Oxford is a VERY multi-cultural city and one with a strong, settled and respected Muslim community.
5) It is enlightening to observe that, among the many articulate, well reasoned posts on here, there are others (presumably also Guardian readers) every bit as bilious, pompous and reactionary as your average Daily Mail fan.
6) I didn't know this website had so many readers from London and Glasgow!
For what it's worth, I'd be very interested to see a follow-up story in my local paper, so I hope tyey can persuade the aggrieved lady at the centre of this story to have a change of heart.

Marilyn, OXFORD says...
6:47pm Fri 20 Apr 07

Well said that person!
God knows the OM is far from perfect (never seen a paper that is), but what a load of ignorant claptrap some of these people have spouted. They read one story and then want to hang ebveryone associated with it. How very un-Guardian like. Or is it? Of course the stories wrong looking back at it now and of course there should be a follow-up setting the record straight.
But spare me the righteous indignation.Manal Omar has had her say and how and she strikes me as someone who is well capable of looking after herself.
They won't lift the Guardian article as it's copyright I'd guess and they obviously take issue with some of it.
So come on Ms Omar, call the OM's bluff and give them your side of the story (but if you do please don't label us all as intolerant).
If they dont run it, then they deserve some stick and the Guardian lynch mob will have 'em!

Diarmuid, Manchester says...
7:10pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I have very little to add to this debate other than to point out that what I find most objectionable was the behaviour of Ian Caldwell and the considerable number of posters who wrote to this list to support him.

Simon O'Neill will correct me if I am wrong, but I assume that the "few idiots" he refers to are the people who have come here and posted racist comments, or comments that are in line with a racist agenda (those who wrote along the lines of if-you-don't-like-it-go-home). He asserts that the accusation has been made, based on the postings of those iditos that the Oxford Mail has a racist agenda and that its readers are racist.

I do not doubt that the paper does not aim to push a racist agenda. However, the story fits neatly within the current anti-Muslim agenda being pushed by many people, not least the media.

O'Neill claims that there "is" currently a debate over the dress of Muslim women. I thought that that particular non-event had been forgotten about. It was carefully engineered and manipulated and then allowed to peter out. Surely, any editor that really believes that what women choose to wear (or not wear) is deserving of a news story needs to evaluate where they are going in their career? Similarly, taking a decision to publish a story with only one side is surely questionable? If you couldn't track down Manal Omar, couldn't you find anybody to offer an alternative viewpoint? Perhaps they'd all gone for a picnic? Was there really such a pressing need to report the story with such urgency? I note that you did manage to track down Manal Omar eventually, so presumably she wasn't impossible to find. One is left with the questions why did you fail to seek an alternativ epoint of view to include in the stroy? Why did you insist on publishing a story that singularly failed to address the concerns of the victim?

It is not unreasonable to conclude that you failed to do these things at best because of poor journalism; at worst because you share the values of those who think that Muslims --and everyone else-- should conform to standards that we set.

I am pleased to see that a number of people have written to this site to show their rejection of Ian Caldwell's brash boorishness. I hope that Manal Omar and other people who feel intimidated by bullies such as Caldwell read these messages of support and take heart.

Dave Hansell, Sheffield says...
7:42pm Fri 20 Apr 07

The OM has been criticised on this comment thread for the specific story it printed and the way it went about it.

However, the way some posters would have it you would think that there was a howling mob at the gates making a general claim that this represented everything about the paper and all the people of Oxford.

This is as dishonest a representation of the criticism the OM has received as the OM's original story and its dishonest with a purpose - to divert attention from the issue by labelling the critics.

As such, people like tarquin and others, are playing the man rather than the ball - which often happens when people know they don't have a leg to stand on.

Not one of those whinging on about "chattering classes" and "guardian mobs" has seriously addressed the issues and questions raised in criticism of this specific story and the way in which it was done.

How for example did the OM get to hear of the incident? Did Mr Caldwell contact them first or did they find Mr Caldwell?

If the latter how did they find him? Could it have been through his membership of the facility? If so they could have easily found this lady for her side of the story?

If Mr Caldwell contacted the OM first its not exactly rocket science to check with the facility to see if the other individual involved was a member and then to ask the facility (rather than the paper or its journalist) to contact the other individual explaining they had received contact from the OM who were interested in doing a story and would she be willing to contact the number left by the OM to give her side of the story.

Perhaps this is in fact what happened, as the lady in question is adamant that she contacted the OM but received no return contact to give her the opportunity to give a more balanced account of what happened. A point convieniently ignored by those trying to throw a smokescreen around this matter by turning the attention on anyone with the temerity to criticise the way the OM ran this story.

Not content with the unjustified kicking this lady has had to put up with and the fact that the OM chose to be lazy in not locating her for her side of the story and then ignoring her contact with the paper there are some who now have another go at her for not perservering in trying to get her side of the story through the OM but instead going to a national newspaper.

How many chances do you want? As I said earlier, if you got mugged in the street and the mugger ignores your remonstrations over their behavior you don't act like a masochist and carry on risking further abuse from them, you go elsewhere and that's what this lady has done.

So lets cut the crap and the misrepresentation of the victims actions here as refusing a timely opportunity given by the OM to give her side. The OM in this instance had their opportunity, were given another one and they blew it.

Take it on the chin like a man. Don't go off on a self-pitying whine like a mardy arse with this nonsense about "Guardian readers". My kids could construct a better argument.

Julia, Oxford says...
9:18pm Fri 20 Apr 07

I sincerely hope that Oxford Mail plans to issue an apology for this misleading article, and refer people who were given the wrong impression to the very sensible interview with the lady in question published in today's Guardian. She was wearing a Muslim style swimsuit, what some refer to as a Burkini, and the way that she has been harassed has really shamed Oxford and its generally friendly and sensible white Christian British population of which I'm proud to belong.

Luke, London/Oxford says...
10:11pm Fri 20 Apr 07

What ****-poor journalism on the part of the Oxford Mail. I like to think that Oxford today is slightly less conservative, and slightly more cosmopolitan, than the Oxford I grew up in during the 1980s. Clearly not.

F.F., says...
10:27pm Fri 20 Apr 07

tarquin wrote:
FF, The eyewitness posted the comment IN RESPONSE to the newspaper story being published ... it\'s difficult to see how the newspaper could interview this person without invoking clairvoyant powers.
I didn't mean to suggest that they could interview the witness beforehand - but since they went to the troouble of the follow-up piece about the swimming suits, they obviously hadn't forgotten the story. This poster's comment should have set alarm bells ringing. For the record, I'm more inclined to believe incompetance than intentional racism on their part. But it's still pretty poor.

John, says...
10:35pm Fri 20 Apr 07

It would help to change the title "Row over Fullydressed Woman in Sauna" to "Row over inaccurate reporting without minimal checking-up of facts followed by pathetic over-defensive self-serving non-apology"

John, says...
10:39pm Fri 20 Apr 07

And it's "hers" not "her's", which is another indication of the journalistic standards of this paper's editor.

Billy, Barton, Oxford says...
10:09am Sat 21 Apr 07

And John is a sad, lonely man if he's posting about apostrophes (or is that apostrophe's?) at 10.40 on a Friday night!
Get a life my friend. This thread is way past its sell by date.
I'm off to get my Oxford Mail and then I'll be nicely incited to commit a couple of racist attacks on the way home.
After all, that's what we do here, according to the tossers above.
And Luke, if you think your birthplace is that bad, stay away. You're not wanted anyway.
End of rant.


Jaroslav, Oxford says...
10:58am Sat 21 Apr 07

Just read the Guardian article. As a whole day has passed I thought they'd be an apology and retraction for the story on the Oxford Mail's website by now.

But no. There's just some self-serving drivel from the editor attacking the victim of the piece. It seems he's upset that Manal Omar is an intelligent and articulate woman with media connections rather than an oppressed rather than an oppressed stereotype worthy of ridicule.

Ayisha, London says...
11:33am Sat 21 Apr 07

In response to Simon O'Neill. Oxford Mail:

What strikes me is your audacity in trying to pinpoint this on Manal. Fact is, if you were so "desperate" to contact her, you could have done so through the club. I also simply refuse to believe that any of the lifeguards on duty, whilst Manal had been swimming, would have told you that she was dressed in robes and a veil, so you could have taken more time to find out more specifically what she was wearing. A basic level of on-line research would also have suggested that perhaps Manal was wearing a type of "Islamic" swimsuit. Does your journalist not know how to employ basic research?

It is more likely that the journalist was trying to jump through, what she perceived to be, a journalistic 'window of opportunity.' Perhaps she thought that, like that Jack Straw article, this would result in a nation-wide debate, thus bringing her article into the limelight and giving her five minutes of fame. Well she has certainly bought attention to herself, however she has also placed her integrity, intentions, honesty, and journalistic 'skills' under severe scrutiny. One questions how she has a position she does at the paper. Its not as if there is a lack of truly skilled people out there who could do a far better job.

Your comeback is fuelled with 'obvious' bitterness. Instead of doing the right thing by admitting your error and apologising, you have the nerve to criticise and blame Manal. She did try to contact the journalist to give her version of events, and fact is, no one bothered to contact her back. So why you think she should make a concerted effort to contact you again prior to publication of her article in The Guardian, is beyond me. Judging by your above response, I am not surprised that Manal has declined an interview with you at this stage. Most people would have. I'm certainly not impressed with you, your journalist,or your paper, and judging by the majority of comments on this page, I see that I am not the only one.

You ought to be ashamed of yourself.

Dave Hansell, Sheffield says...
12:12pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Billy in Barton.

You should get yourself an agent son. Why sit there alone in the dark handling yourself.

John, says...
12:49pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Billy dear,

If you don't think that a newspaper editor should be able to punctuate properly, then none of your other opinions, such as about what someone should be doing on a Friday night (though I expect you got ****, like a real grown-up) are worth taking any notice of at all.

chris, egham says...
1:04pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Having read the excuses given by the editor of the Oxford Mail, can I ask why there was no attempt to contact the lady in question before publishing a piece of biased tripe you should be ashamed of?

Layla, London says...
1:14pm Sat 21 Apr 07

I am an American Muslim woman who regularly exercises in a sports club or on the street whilst maintaining what I believe is a 'modest' attire - compatible with my personal convictions. Now I think I shall add the 'burkini' to my attire!

Manal should be applauded for her desire to stay fit and healthy when public health statistics indicate that people are getting heavier and less fit!

She is a role model for me and other women - whatever their religion.

Shame on Oxford Mail and David Lloyds Gym for not getting her side of the story and making a specticle of this!

Keep swimming Manal!

Anon, London says...
2:36pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Oh my God. How ignorant are you people?
Look at the article in the Guardian about this issue and get the full story.
Ian blew things out of proportion because he is a racist and sexist, and the Oxford Mail just went and backed him up.
Don't comment on an issue until you have the full story, not just some right-wing local paper's version of the events!

egan, britain says...
2:59pm Sat 21 Apr 07

What a cowardly dishonest double standard reply by the editor, after publishing the story with out strenuous attempts to get the "other" sides views he then moans when he accuses the Guardian of a dis-similar event. and as for the shamefull actions of a "woman" reporter Fran Bardsley is she training before she moves on to a Red Top reporting gutter stories, it is quite possible that the original complainer has BNP views either as a supporte or member, they do like to exagerate things in their mind and narrow mindedley stir it up, i'ts been used by one of that type on the AOL message Boards to foster hatred. Some of the imbeciles who've commeneted clearly haven't even properly read the story or understood it .

Helena, London says...
4:49pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Manal: 1-Ian Caldwell: 0

Sid, London says...
6:00pm Sat 21 Apr 07

To Simon O'Neill, Editor:

WOW what a defensive reaction!

What strikes me is the way you have referred to those who have suggested that your paper may be somewhat racist or anti-Muslim, as "idiots."

Well what of those people who did express racist and prejudiced comments on the back of the initial article - the one that bore all the wrong information, perpetuated a gross stereotype, and tarnished a woman who has done more for women's rights than most, if not all, of those who work at your paper.

Are you not going to brand them as idiots too? Most likely not. Thats certainly saying something.


Manny, Oxford says...
7:22pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Whoa there! I think everyone needs to calm down a bit.
Hindsight or otherwise, the Mail's got this wrong for sure and the editor's poured fuel on the flames with his response.
Bit it's not a bad or offensive paper in my experience and has acually done good work on behalf of asylum seekers. I also see lots of good postive stuff about the Mulsim community in there on a regular basis.
But you can't blame Manal or those looking in from outside for thinkjing otherwise in the circumstances.
The Mail needs to square the circle on this by going back to Manal and persuaiding her to give her version, preferably in her own words for Oxford readers. And if she wants an apology, then give it to her.
Then maybe something postive will come out of the whole kerfuffle.
How about it OM?

John, Oxford says...
7:25pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Agreed. And Sid from London, I think from reading it that the O'Neil letter labels the racist posters "idiots" not people having a go at the paper (very eloquently too!)

Roger, Oxford says...
9:19pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Idiots = racists on thread. Wake up Sid from London!

Glyn, London says...
9:37pm Sat 21 Apr 07

When Simon O'Neill says in his response that: "our story about her going for a swim at an Oxford pool in a 'costume' designed for Muslim women." His paper's article said no such thing - it was about a woman going swimming in her street clothes, not a swimming costume, so that's just untrue.

However, I for one am prepared to believe that the paper's report wasn't racist, just incompetent.

And it seems to me that Mr O'Neil's reference to "idiots" posting here, was to various racists rather than to his critics.

Sid, London says...
9:42pm Sat 21 Apr 07

My bad, I misread it! Apologies.

But the rest of my comment stands!

Roger, Oxford says...
10:08pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Fair play Sid. Now I'm off for the night, or Billy from Barton will call me sad. Match of the Day beckons.

Raishma, London says...
11:31pm Sat 21 Apr 07

Having read both reports I am shocked how this newspaper failed to check its facts. It is any publications duty to surely check the facts before publishing the article rather than giving mr ignorant a platform to voice his islamophobic views! Did not the journalist question HIM to find out why he was intimidated by this modestly dressed woman, its absurd. Who else was interviewed to back up his views? Mr Town obviously wasn't - and he took no offense - surely the paper had his email address from when he entered his comment above and had an opportunity to speak to him!
Surely the paper has had further opportunity to apologise and has not bothered! Shameful.

Aisha, Oxford says...
1:50am Sun 22 Apr 07

As a British Muslim woman born in Oxford I was saddened to read about what had happened to Manal in a city that I love and call home.

I think it's only right that the Oxford Mail apologises to Manal for printing a one sided and inaccurate story and that from now on the paper checks its facts before it splashes a story across its pages. Let’s be clear, the story was only published because the woman in question was a non white skinned Muslim. If the swimmer in question had been wearing a 'full black robe' and didn't look like a funny looking foreigner then it would never have become a 'story’. I can’t believe that the Oxford Mail didn’t speak to the lifeguards on duty to understand that Manal’s costume was perfectly appropriate.

As Manal wrote in her excellent Guardian article, since when did not reporting the full facts stop a journalist from writing a story about a Muslim in the current climate?

It's interesting that the online versions of the 'The Sun' and 'Daily Star' also picked up and ran with the original story in the Oxford Mail, again this is no accident. These red tops thrive on sensationalist and inaccurate reporting of stories and I gues they couldn’t let this opportunity to bash a Muslim women pass them by.

I have been heartened to read the reaction from most people responding, it’s comforting to know that despite the propaganda and often vile hate fuelled 'journalism' demonising all Muslims (many born and bred in the UK like myself) that so many people can see through the nonsense and spot xenophobia and racism when they see it.

Mr O Neil - you should be ashamed of allowing this story to run - I look forward to you and the so called journalist who wrote the original nonsense apologising to Manal…and fast.



Theo Delight, Manchester says...
8:34am Sun 22 Apr 07

Mr Lloyd's confirmation of the story was inaccurate and Mr Caldwell was somewhat ecominical with the actualité: the woman was wearing a 'burqini', not floor-length robes. Quite what his agenda might be should be left for one to speculate, but it is not difficult to guess.

Lynn Rankin, Preston says...
10:42am Sun 22 Apr 07

I am disappointed to hear that any man is given credibility when he complains that a woman is wearing too many clothes.
Personally, I find the most offensive leisure-centre sight to be fat men in skimpy trunks.

Laura, Oxford says...
11:50am Sun 22 Apr 07

mitchshrader wrote:
You\\\'ve given up knives and guns, the rights to self defense, and your culture. Pity, that. Gutless, was it? No nerve, giving it back to the abo\\\'s, what? Not surprised, no moral fiber. Be glad when they just give over, it\\\'s painful to watch. The lack of capital punishment, guns, and individual pride has dissolved the British spirit. No lumpy bits left, you can flush now.
Mitchshrader, do you need to see a head doctor sweetheart?

tarquin, oxford says...
12:55pm Sun 22 Apr 07

The topic is well and truly stale now but I have to say Lynn is right about chubby blokes and what they wear in leisure centres.
In fact there should be a fatwa (no pun intended) against any man wearing Speedos, regardless of age but particularly those the other side of 50.

Guardianista, Oxford says...
1:38pm Sun 22 Apr 07

Perhaps the Oxford Mail has failed to apologise because it underestimated Manal Omar. It perhaps has been caught out by her powerful response and the support that it has received.

Meanwhile, can it please remove the comment by Terry C that has been on the thread since 19 March, and which is clearly racist towards Muslims, the French, and the Germans.

Fatima, Birmingham says...
2:31pm Sun 22 Apr 07

This is not about British people being anti-Muslim, it is about Manal Omar wanting to make a statement. She might as well have gone into that swimming pool carrying a banner that read "I am VERY religious, VERY Holy, VERY Muslim and VERY modest. In her article in The Guardian she herself admits that neither her mother nor her sister wear the Muslim headscarf. This total covering up form of dress is not a necessary part of the Muslim religion as many thousands of Muslims do not choose to wear it. Therefore, choosing to dress like this out of your own free will, comes across as a statement of religious extremism. Ms Omar states that "I don't force my swimsuit on others.." This is incorrect and shows insensitivity on her part to how "other" women who may be dressed in bikinis feel when she appears with every inch of her flesh swaddled from the tip of her head to her toes. It makes us feel self-conscious and it also feels slightly intimidating. It is like a silent reproach, the implication being "You "other" women are not dressed modestly". It is also ludicrous to claim that this type of costume is necessarily modest anyway. Any costume made of swimsuit material is going to cling to the body when wet as can be demonstrated from the photographs of Ms Omar modelling her "Swimsuit" in The Guardian where every ample curve of her body can be clearly seen. More worryingly, she claims going swimming dressed like this is an example of Muslims integrating and trying to be part of the "mainstream community". If this is what Muslims think is "coming out into the mainstream", then we are in deep trouble. Britain has a culture of tolerance but people do not like fanaticism. This whole thing smacks of fanaticism. Next time Ms Omar, just bring the banner.

Ayisha, London says...
4:57pm Sun 22 Apr 07

TO FATIMA:

Firstly: To state that Manal wanted to make a statement by wanting to take a swim, is absolutely ludicrous. Had she really wanted to make a statement, this would hardly be the most fitting or effective of avenues. She has been swimming in this attire the world over, so are you implying that for years on end Manal’s only ‘agenda’ is to make a statement?

Secondly: To suggest that simply because her mother and sister, and thousands of other Muslim women worldwide do not cover up, ‘proves’ that it is not part of the Islamic faith is extremely naïve and ill-educated. There are many Muslims who choose to drink, so does that automatically mean that alcohol is permissible within the faith? There are also many who don’t pray. Does that mean that prayer is thus not mandatory? I think not. Your argument is extremely weak.

Thirdly: To then accuse Manal of being insensitive to the other women, is pathetic. If you want to make assumptions as to how she thinks about these “other” women, then admit that, and do not make accusations. And if you would feel uncomfortable in her presence, assuming she is judging you, then that’s simply a manifestation of your own insecurities. Besides, it was not a female swimmer who complained it was a male swimmer. At the beach there are many women who feel uncomfortable with their bodies and thus choose to wear sarongs, or short. Are they too being insensitive to those who with to wear bikinis? It seems as though this freedom of ‘clothing choice’ only seems to come under attack when a ‘religious’ woman wishes to cover up.

Fourthly: Manal is hardly painting herself out to be a model of a devout Muslim woman. She is simply trying to make the most of the attire and the circumstances available. She says nothing of her degree of religiosity. Why should she not go for a swim? Are you saying only women who wear bikinis have a right to swim?

And finally, if her taking a swim in a covered costume is what you define as fanatical, then yes, Muslims are in trouble. What exactly your problem is I have no idea, but you come across as very narrow minded and bitter, with no regard for the culture of “tolerance” that you mention. And tolerance isn’t something we should be proud of anyway – it suggests nothing more than a ‘gritted-through-the-teeth-having-to-put-up-with’ attitude. Respect is what is needed.

So tell me, exactly what harm has Manal caused?

Fatima, Birmingham says...
5:30pm Sun 22 Apr 07

Of course I am not saying she was making a statement by wanting to take a swim. You deliberately misunderstand what I wrote. But she IS making a statement by taking a swim dressed in such a ridiculous garb. We all know there are different interpretations of the Muslim faith - that is why Muslims are murdering each other in Iraq on a daily basis. My point is that as there are so many interpretations of it, it seems extremist to insist on a particularly regressive form of dress in a society where this is not necessary. What about stoning women to death? That's practised by some Muslims, just look on the internet for live footage. I am not bitter, just frightened that people still follow such barbaric practises in the name of God.

Fatima, Birmingham says...
5:41pm Sun 22 Apr 07

Accusing someone of being "narrow minded " and having a "problem" because they cricitise any aspect of the Muslim faith is not exactly the basis for a reasoned and intellectual debate. You have chosen to ignore the main gist of my argument, you are talking through your Burka!

Ayisha, London says...
5:51pm Sun 22 Apr 07

FATIMA:

“Deliberately misunderstood”: Wow another assumption! Do you take all your assumptions to be concrete fact? Again by insisting that she “IS” making a statement, you are still assuming she has a certain agenda or intention. Why can you not just accept that all she simply wanted to do was mind her own business and take a swim? Why are you so insistent on demonizing the woman? Still pathetic.

Yes there are many evil acts committed by people of ALL faiths. Take a look at the Virginia massacre for example. The minute they thought he might have been Muslim, the media was talking of Islamic Extremism and Terrorism. However, once they found out he was a Christian, there was no mention of extremism or terrorism, he just went back to being a very disturbed young man. Are you seriously going to start equating stoning to a woman wanting to take a swim? What planet are you on? If anyone seems extreme here its you.

And tell me why the dress is regressive? Are you saying that anything that does not expose skin is oppressive (unless of course its in Vogue!)? And Manal is hardly the face of an oppressed woman. You are talking about a 32 year old who has put her life on the line in Iraq and Afghanistan working on women’s development issues and fighting for their constitutional rights. Tell me, what have you done in your life that can even remotely equate to the such a thing. You can yap on about how fanatical and oppressive you think she is, but honey, fact is, she has most likely (and please correct me if I am wrong) done a **** of a lot more of women then you ever will.

Ayisha, London says...
5:54pm Sun 22 Apr 07

FATIMA: "you are talking through your Burka!

WOW yet another assumption? You are on a roll! Honey, I dont wear a burka. I dont even wear a headscarf. Or are you (again) assuming that only women who wear burkas or cover their hair will defend Manal's right?

Ayisha, London says...
5:57pm Sun 22 Apr 07

FATIMA:

I have no problem with people throwing out "constructive" criticism about the Muslim faith. This debate is not about the Muslim faith. Its about Manal. You are the one who started accusing her of being fanatical and trying to make a statement simply bc of what she wore. A tad extreme dont you think?

Helena, London says...
6:19pm Sun 22 Apr 07


I don’t wear a burka, or a scarf, i’m not even a muslim, but I’m a woman who demands respect from others and that’s exactly what Manal was doing. Her choice was to wear her swimsuit in order to be able to swim, one of her passions. Who are we, to tell her how to swim and what to wear. I don’t like to be criticised by anyone when I wear my bikini, or my mini skirt, because wearing these pieces of clothes is clearly MY choice, so why should we criticise manal and consider her, as Fatima and others do, as a fanatic nonsense muslim woman? And related to what Fatima says about the fact that other women could feel intimidated, it’s complete bullshit, why should we feel intimidated, are you intimidated when you see a woman wearing her head-scarf or being veiled? It’s a matter of choices, each of us is free to decide how to live and what to preach. I really don’t think Manal is in any way extremist and I really cant see where the harm is in going to take a swim, can u please explain me if u think she is harming you in any possible way? Ur opinion, Fatima, is clearly more fanatical and narrow-minded than whatever Manal has done or said in these past days.

Fatima, Birmingham says...
6:53pm Sun 22 Apr 07

I really don't care whether Manal takes a swim or not or whether she does it nude or wearing swaddling clothes. She is free to do as she pleases and most people (me included) would simply accept that it is her free choice and right to wear whatever she feels comfortable in. However, I stand by my original point that she is making a strong religious statement by her choice of "Swimsuit" and also that many women DO feel intimidated by Muslim women who choose to wear the full veil - I live in Birmingham and have talked to many people who agree. The wider British public also agreed with this when Jack Straw started the debate a few months ago. People do not complain though, mainly because if they do they get branded racist or extreme, just like you have done to me just now. Calling people names, being abusive to those who hold differing view points from your own and being patronising ("Honey?!!") really is not an impressive way to conduct a discussion.

V. Ameen, London says...
7:05pm Sun 22 Apr 07

Ayisha made some very valid points. I very much welcome more such posts.

Fatima: I find your comments (and some earlier posts from others) difficult to digest. I fail to see how (as you put it) Ayisha has ignored the gist of your arguement. I look forward to reading your response to her refreshingly clear well presented points.

Fatima, please shed your opinion on the following: what about the feelings of women who DON'T wear bikinis? You said Ms Omar shows "insensitivity on her part to how "other" women who may be dressed in bikinis feel.." Should you not also give deserved consideration to feelings of those who do not favour the bikini? Many people (of varied faiths and body type) are not comfortable in a bikini. Would it not be ridiculous to expect bikini-clad women not to swim just because others feel self-conscious?

Poor Manal. All this for a SWIM !

Ayisha, London says...
7:16pm Sun 22 Apr 07

“I really don't care whether Manal takes a swim or not or whether she does it nude or wearing swaddling clothes”: erm you clearly do!

So anyone who is visibly of a certain faith is making a strong religious statement? So that would be the same of Nuns? Or Jewish men who wear the skullcap? Perhaps the issue is that YOU are reading too much into them. I still fail to grasp what your issue is with people who decide to implement fait in their life and express it through their clothes? Again, you can follow the latest fashion trends but you can’t ‘look’ like someone who follows a particular faith?

As for women who feel intimidated, I still cannot fathom why. Like I said, perhaps its insecurity. Or perhaps you need to stop over analyzing things. It does not bother me in the least bit, and again I don’t wear the burka (even though you have decided that I do), I do not cover my hair, and I am not strict about my code of dress.

There are also plenty of women (of all faiths, no faith) who are uncomfortable with women who walk around with their ‘boobs hanging out’ or those who yank their thongs up higher than the waistband of their jeans. Are we debating them? At the end of the day, each to their own. No one has the right to judge, and unless actual harm is being done, there should be no issue. And don’t merge the Jack Straw debate into this. He was referring to the covering of the face. This is hardly the same thing.

I did not brand you a racist. And you were the one who started by referring to Manal as Fanatical. So don’t complain when others call your view extreme. I suggest that before you try to sit on the throne of ‘conversational dignity,’ you ought to take another look at the patronizing, and unimpressive way you came into this discussion, honey!

My guess is that your name isn’t really Fatima. Just a nagging suspicion – not that I care either way. Perhaps you are a friend of Ian's!

Fatima, Birmingham says...
8:08pm Sun 22 Apr 07

Sweetie, I did not say that you personally called me a racist. Nuns wear religious garb because the point is that they are religious fanatics who have decided to renounce wordly fashion, money and sex and devote their lives to God. Since Manal is not a nun or devoting herself full-time to another religious sect I do not understand her need to be so extreme in her religious outfits (she says she wears the face veil too). My point is, it does not really matter what you wear to go swimming, so why does she make such a big deal out of it? If she is so hung up on other people looking at her body when its under water anyway, maybe she should avoid it.

Fatima, Birmingham says...
8:11pm Sun 22 Apr 07

I forgot to say that my comment about the Burka was meant to be a joke! Clearly it did not work!

Ayisha, London says...
8:42pm Sun 22 Apr 07


Fatima:

When in her article she said she wore the veil, she was referring to the headscarf. Her pictures clearly show that she does not cover her face. And those who do cover their faces are very unlikely to wear the same style of swimming attire, because they will likely deem it not suitable for themselves.

Further on, she only wrote the article in response to what had been written about her. She wished to correct the false story which was published in The Oxford Mail, and rectify the gross stereotype that was made. Had The Oxford Mail not published the inaccurate story that it did, she would not have gone to The Guardian. This is a woman who stated in her article that she wears the “burqini” whilst her sister wears the “bikini.” She is someone who evidently does not care either way how people dress, and supports the notion of freedom of choice. I personally have a great deal of admiration and respect for her, because I know that if I would not have the guts to wear it. Not because I disagree with the outfit, but probably because I would probably be too self-conscious. And that is perhaps a weakness/insecurity.

She is not hung up on people looking at her body. Had she been, do you think she would have posed in the The Guardian wearing it? I don’t think so.

I appreciate that we all have different views and perspectives. But again, why is such a big deal made over something so trivial? Why cant we all just do-as-we-do in so long as we don’t harm or negatively infringe upon others? If herself, or anyone for that matter, was verbally condemning or judging other women for wearing less, and making them feel uncomfortable, I would expect the club to ask them to leave. As I would have expected them to take a similar approach to Ian who verbally attacked her in front of everyone.

Given much of the bad press about Muslims and given the prevalence of many stereotypes, I can see why some may view Muslims as weirdo extremists. But I assure you, these fanatics and extremists are as much of a detriment to me (as a Muslim) as they are to non-Muslims. I assure you, they are a minority within a minority.

I apologise for missing your joke (and no that was not sarcasm)

Hadley White, London says...
9:38pm Sun 22 Apr 07

Manal Omar, I have just finished reading your article in the Guardian and I am furious on your behalf. Not least against the sorry excuse for journalism that the Oxford Mail purports to be. You have my full support.

I also hope you do decide to return to David Lloyd's and continue to swim in your swimsuit. My reasons are twofold.
1) My experience of the English (as an Aussie expat) is that they abhore public confrontation (except for the mad bigots clearly). I am sure that many people who were present when Mr Caldwell accosted you felt ashamed of his behaviour, but were too timid to stand up to your defense. I suspect that had this incident occurred in the America of your childhood there would not have been the same hesitation to speak publicly. However, now that their conscience has been pricked the people of Oxford will be far more vocal in their support. You will only discover if I am right by returning to the pool.
2) The only way to deal with idiocy and bullies is to stand up to them. If you don't return to the pool then the Mr Caldwells of this world will continue to get away with their appalling behaviour.

Gisli Agustsson, Iceland says...
12:58am Mon 23 Apr 07

Reading the other side to this story I must say that this newspiece taking side with such a sexist bigot and xenophobe, is just incredible, and a proof that the journalist responsable for it show of his own bigotry. Sad thing.

tarquin, oxford says...
12:43pm Mon 23 Apr 07

Having read these comments from the Respect Coalition brigade I see the error of my ways.
In addition to his other heinous crimes I suspect the original complainant of being a global warming denier.

PS Gisli, I know there's not much happening in Iceland at night except for drinking at that revolving restaurant in Reykjavik but, really, posting comments at nearly 1am about the Oxford Mail is a smidgin depressing.

Musical 2, Yorkshire says...
3:14pm Mon 23 Apr 07

Oldster wrote:
So it will be all right if British women go to this person\'s country and dress and behave in a western way, provided it\'s not a health & safety issue? That\'s fine then. The British are expected to tolerate the immigrants\' customs (some of which are illegal, e.g. they often don\'t observe the Sex Discrimination Act and force their children\'s marriages). Yet it is taken for granted that the immigrants do not have to reciprocate this tolerance in any way, either in their own country or here. (My father was an immigrant, but felt privileged to live here, and would have considered it rude not to observe this country\'s ways.)
You know her then? You certainly appear to know where she's from or did your brain cell simply go cramp during posting

Bjork, Oxford, near Iceland (the store) says...
5:31pm Mon 23 Apr 07

Icelandic person: GET A LIFE!

Laura, Oxford says...
8:46pm Mon 23 Apr 07

Mr Caldwell is a shameless bigot and bare-faced liar who deserves to be run out of town, and the Oxford Mail's credulity only reveals their willingness to take on stories about brown women acting funny. Nobody comes out of this well except Ms Omar.

Gisli Agustsson, Iceland says...
9:24pm Mon 23 Apr 07

In return it amazes me that someone is shocked over some nutty Icelander staying awake at 1 am. Do you uptight people over there check out at after dinner? :)

Ayisha, London says...
12:12am Tue 24 Apr 07

Is it just me, or have the name of the wonderful journalist Fran from above? By Golly!

Steve, Banbury says...
6:09pm Wed 25 Apr 07

Did anyone read the Guardian article by Manal Omar about the incident? Her intelligence and tolerance comes across in a way that makes me despair for the bigotry and ignorance some of the people who have responded to this story on this site. One thing she wrote was very pertinent I think: "Granted, my swimsuit may not blend in, but the refusal by people like Caldwell (the man who complained) to allow Muslim women to create a middle ground of interaction in the UK forces them into the extremes". I agree totally with her. This is not about what we do if we go to another country, but about what is sensible and just in this one, which is a multicultural democracy. And long may it be so.

Ayisha, London says...
10:57pm Mon 30 Apr 07

Hmmm, interesting...when one clicks on the link the ONLY comment shown (unless we actively click on read comments) is one of the few, if not only 'anti-Manal' comment...and it was not even the last one posted. Dont you think thats a little petty oh Oxford Mail?

Tracy, New York says...
12:24am Sat 5 May 07

I am not Muslim, I have no connection to the middle east. But I don't wear revealing clothes in public. I would love to have one of these swimsuits for asethetic reasons. I think it's a great look. Would I also be harassed if I wore this suit in a spa? Live and let live.

Sohaib, UK says...
5:07pm Thu 10 May 07

http://www.guardian.co.uk/g2/story/0,,2061608,00.html

Read HER side of the story. Dont judge just yet.

bernie, England says...
5:40pm Wed 3 Oct 07

Incredible.
How can anyone be offended or feel threatened in any way by a woman wearing a burkini ?

Rubiyah Ghavs, Singapore says...
11:15pm Sun 23 Dec 07

Here is a website that offers Modest Swimwear for women. Http://www.rubyzent.
com This swimwear is designed to allow Muslim women to keep their faith while at the same time, enjoy swimming. Personally, I think it is OK for Muslim women to enjoy swimming in public pools as long as they wear proper and approved whole body suit type of swimwear.

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