NO-one who has not been through it can truly understand the grief a family goes through when they lose a child.
Cassie Arnold, who lost two of the three babies she was carrying, endured even deeper agony.
But her story, and that of partner Adam Manning, at least has a happy ending. And that is seven-month-old Finley.
The baby was in hospital for 10 weeks.
Now he is out – and much of this is down to the hard work of staff at the recently expanded John Radcliffe neonatal unit. Good on them, and good luck to a family who deserve our best wishes.
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