Night on the streets was real eye-opener (From Oxford Mail)
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Night on the streets was real eye-opener
12:00pm Friday 28th December 2012 in News
By Emma Harrison, Reporter covering Rose Hill, Littlemore and Iffley. Contact me on 01865 425430
FUNDRAISER Sian Hawley failed to get a wink of sleep during her night of sleeping rough on the streets of Oxford.
She says the experience on Saturday night opened her eyes to the plight of homeless people living in the city facing winter without a roof over their heads.
The 25-year-old from Ardington and two family members raised more than £1,000 for charity Oxford Homeless Pathways by spending the night outside the Westgate Centre collecting donations.
Her father, Leslie Belcher, 51, was a rough sleeper who died at the Lucy Faithfull House hostel in Speedwell Street on October 31.
Miss Hawley said: “We had charity buckets but a lot of people thought we were homeless. They either walked past us and didn’t acknowledge us or especially at the end of the night we got patronising comments from people who had been drinking. But some people were absolutely lovely.”
She added: “We ached from head to toe. It was one night and I felt like I had been hit by a bus.”
The trio had sleeping bags and plenty of warm clothes to get them through the relatively mild but wet night and spoke to two homeless people called Sharon and Shaggy.
Miss Hawley said: “There is nothing I could have done to experience what they have to go through – even if I spent a week on the streets I have a home to go to. They don’t. Every single night is a night of survival for them.”
Miss Hawley said she discovered that homeless people with pets find it difficult to secure rooms in a hostel and the experience has inspired her to do more to support homeless people in the future.
Oxford Homeless Pathways helped Mr Belcher when he was given an Asbo and fell into difficulties.
Miss Hawley said: “I think he would have been really proud. He would be really happy that I kind of understand a bit more of what they have to go through. And how you can have someone on the street who people can walk past – but if you spend time getting to know them they are actually amazing people.”
She was joined by cousin James Desmond, of Blackbird Leys, and her father’s cousin Colin Morris-Smith, 55, of Blackbird Leys, who said: “We had lots of conversations with some of the homeless people and learnt a lot about what it is like to live on the street. It was an eye-opener.”
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Comments (33)
1:30pm Fri 28 Dec 12
Myron Blatz says...
5:37pm Fri 28 Dec 12
Sandy Wimpole-Smythe says...
6:19pm Fri 28 Dec 12
carfax cabby ox1 says...
7:19pm Fri 28 Dec 12
mytaxes says...
8:37pm Fri 28 Dec 12
Myron Blatz says...
9:47pm Fri 28 Dec 12
carfax cabby ox1 says...
10:15pm Fri 28 Dec 12
DoctorBob says...
1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present.
2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rents
10:17pm Fri 28 Dec 12
DoctorBob says...
8:43am Sat 29 Dec 12
xjohnx says...
What have any of you ever done to help??
What is your new years resolution??
Donate to the Sally Army at the very least!!!!
9:01am Sat 29 Dec 12
Lord Palmerstone says...
ely right oh great and wonderful socialist and surely as well as "stereotypical" & "prejudiced" you should have included "bigoted" These are words you lot have to use because you haven't a prayer of winning any debate on logical grounds.
And people in council-or any other form of public- housing DO cost us money, because unrealised rent increases my Council Tax. You whine about Starbucks not paying a "fair" amount of tax. Well you can't have it both ways. If someone pays £100 a week rent for a house which you part own when it should be £170 then they are stealing from you.
9:04am Sat 29 Dec 12
Lord Palmerstone says...
4:12pm Sat 29 Dec 12
EMBOX2 says...
It is an inconvienient truth that many homeless" in Oxford are nothing of the sort. They choose to be on the streets despite the numerous "projects" that exist. Also note the number who are not from Oxford but come here, the latest foreign Big Issues sellers are one example.
There needs to be tough love for these people - give them help but when they reject it, send them back to the city of their birth (or where they have family). Oxford taxpayers do not need, and cannot afford to support such people.
5:30pm Sat 29 Dec 12
Myron Blatz says...
6:01pm Sat 29 Dec 12
DoctorBob says...
6:03pm Sat 29 Dec 12
DoctorBob says...
6:05pm Sat 29 Dec 12
DoctorBob says...
9:40am Sun 30 Dec 12
Lord Palmerstone says...
1:01pm Sun 30 Dec 12
EMBOX2 says...
3:03pm Sun 30 Dec 12
DoctorBob says...
5:07pm Sun 30 Dec 12
carfax cabby ox1 says...
7:42pm Sun 30 Dec 12
EMBOX2 says...
These homeless tourists are a massive problem in Oxford (and Brighton during the summer) and it is high time something was done. The phasing out of help to all but the genuinely homeless should help.
Many "homeless" in Oxford are none of the sort. They just don't want to partake in society. Go ask them yourself - most are quite amiable to a conversation.
9:22pm Sun 30 Dec 12
the wizard says...
Many "homeless" are that way as they prefer to be that way. Take away the hand outs, enforce anti begging rules and sleeping rough legislation and they will slowly become aware that their chosen life style is not so cavalier and fingers up to the rest of society as they think.
If they are shunned enough and the do-gooders retreat, so will many of the free loaders, leaving a small minority who are the genuine cases of concern.
If ever there was a contradiction of terms, it is Oxford itself. So so so educated, maybe, but equally neglective of what is happening on its own streets. Don't blame the council, blame the society that has voted for the council and what it stands for.
2:23pm Mon 31 Dec 12
oafie says...
FACT Have another baby...need a bigger house...get rehoused.
FACT Have another baby, more benefits and get rehoused.
FACT Then reaping so much money in benefits no motivation to improve self, situation let alone get a job.
FACT Might do a bit of training or studying...will get that free because on benefits, and still have nice cheap affordable home in Oxford.
FACT Check out the streets and pubs! Stop parents being able to spend all day getting plastered in front of their young children.
Perhaps those under 25 with babies should be placed in 'shared supported properties' where they are not put in a situation where they will simply gain materially, but might learn other skills including being independent and being able to provide for their children.
5:48pm Tue 1 Jan 13
DoctorBob says...
5:50pm Tue 1 Jan 13
DoctorBob says...
6:16pm Tue 1 Jan 13
DoctorBob says...
To examine your statement further we can see what nonsense it really is. You say many homeless aren't homeless. They either are or aren't by definition.
So you are on first name terms with some homeless people. Whoopy doo! Are you saying your evidential research is participant observation? Having spent a good chunk of my life working with the homeless I can assure you very few make it a lifestyle choice. I can also assure you that those names you think you are on a knowing basis with most probably are aliases or nicknames.
Many people on the streets are ex services, come from abusive or violent backgrounds, have mental health issues or are unfortunate enough to have lost everything in a society that champions ruthlessness.
6:25pm Tue 1 Jan 13
DoctorBob says...
Any real evidence that can be verified?
5:12pm Wed 2 Jan 13
Lord Palmerstone says...
That's really sad Doc Bob. You're some kind of social worker. If you try real hard you could still get a proper job. Maybe be the "Corporate Parenting Manager" for our County Council like Ms. Fonseca, get wads of cash and an OBE. Just tell yourself you can do it. Remember the ant and the rubbertree plant.
5:41pm Wed 2 Jan 13
carfax cabby ox1 says...
com I can verify what I say can you.
9:24pm Wed 2 Jan 13
DoctorBob says...
I'd be interested on what grounds you think you'd be seeing anybody in court?
9:35pm Wed 2 Jan 13
DoctorBob says...
Interesting you think working with the vulnerable is sad. What noble service did you provide for humanity in your working life?
12:56pm Thu 3 Jan 13
Lord Palmerstone says...
7:14pm Thu 3 Jan 13
carfax cabby ox1 says...